Saturday, February 02, 2008

i'm a busy man

Okay, currently i managed to find myself some short-term job to get me some income, so i am a busy person. But i know i had better start commenting about what is happening on my tagboard.

First and foremost, so many people are commenting on my cbox. Let me say that i welcome anybody and everybody to say what they want on my tagboard. You can say whatever you want. The limit is the auto-censor by cbox itself. My only rule? Leave a name with your message.

i find this whole matter very interesting. Before i even made a comment or reply, there are already 5 people speaking up for me. Do you know what's the difference between me and you, Jun Hao? i have the support of my friends. Now, tell me, who do you have as support? Of course, not counting Glenys herself. She is out of the equation. You only have your friend, whom you claim to be, who is called "someone". i dont know, maybe you have more friends that i wont be able to see who are supporting you. Okay, enough of friends who support me from my side of my social circle. How about support from friends of Glenys? Do you have any? As far as i know, you have been very possessive of Glenys, restricting who she should go out with, what time she shouldnt be out of home, etc.. Okay, i dont know how many restrictions you have set. But what i cannot understand is why do you even restrict who she goes out with? Everyone has friends, and anyone deserves to be a friend of everyone. What are you so afraid of? What are your worries? Glenys is not a bird. You cannot keep her locked in a cage for your viewing pleasure or whatsoever motives that you have. We are all humans. We are social beings. We need to interact with people. With this restriction on not allowing her to go out with her friends, you have lost all support from her side of the social circle. You are penalising yourself.

Okay, enough with supports. And i dont understand why i am saying so much to you. i dont know with what kind of an attitude you view my words to be. But to me, at least, i see them as advice. i dont understand why the hell am i giving advice to my competitor.

Anyway, thanks Melissa, Ben, JY, Yaowen and Hwee for tagging. The words of everyone, except for Ben, were pretty harsh. But as i said, everyone can say anything on my tagboard, as long as you leave your name. As for "someone", it'll be good if you leave your name. Because right now, i'm considering if i should just delete those messages by anonymous parties.

To Jun Hao, what kind of remarks fit me? That i'm gay and i look like a girl in those pictures? Fine, i wont disagree with those descriptions. In fact, that is old news already. The remarks are not disrespectful to me. What is it with you that deserves respect from me? Your impatience to "settle the score"? Your poor foresight in leaving your contact number on the World Wide Web? Do you know what serious consequences you may have when you leave your number on the Internet? And now, what big words have i said? You want to believe that i'll call? i'll say it's good to believe in people, but do you believe in your girl? Believe Glenys before you start to believe in me. Give her trust. The moment you can give your full trust in her and her words, then maybe, just maybe, you will be rewarded with your belief in me. And then, it is not your business who i go out with. It is also not your business who Glenys go out with because everyone has the freedom and right to go out with any person. Even if she is your wife, you dont become a control freak to such an extent. i know how it feels to be insecure, but... oh well, i dont want to give anymore advice. In any case, just to let you know, not restricting my comment to only Glenys, there is no harm in a guy or a girl, who is attached, to go out with people of the opposite gender. Friends. Do you not understand the meaning of that word?

posted at 16:07 by ah wei



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